As a ladyloving lady I regularly read about women ''in the life'' on different forums on the internet. Can't say there isn't enough to read about lesbian lifestyles, especially those in the USA! I mean, haven't heard about the word ''Hersband'' before in the Netherlands, whereas the ladies in the USA seem to be very innovative when it comes to finding names to point out their partners/relationships.
I do sometimes learn about things that seem pretty STRANGE to me though. As a lesbian, you're probably familiar with the word STRAP, if you use one or not, not important! Straight people also seem to use them. What kinda shocked me, was to read about studs (opposite of Femmes, the feminine looking lesbians) who choose to daily wear a strap underneath their clothes?
Now, I know I would be lifting up one eyebrow when meeting a woman with an obvious bump in her pants, but I am curious about what makes her decide to do this? Does it mean she sees this as an extension of her body? Can't think of anything else, but would definately like to know about other opinions...please fill me in on this one!
Marleen
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